Guided home worship
महाशिवरात्रि
Chaturdashi of Krishna paksha, Phalguna

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Puja sequence
Sip water three times, then state the intention aloud: the day, the place and the purpose of the rite.
Why this step
Saying the purpose out loud settles the mind and fixes the boundary of the rite in time and place.
Invoke Ganesha briefly before the main worship.
Why this step
A fixed opening used across sampradayas so every rite begins the same way.
Pour water in a slow unbroken stream over the linga, reciting Om Namah Shivaya.
Why this step
The core act of welcome and cooling; the unbroken stream is itself the attention practice.
Offer bilva leaves smooth-side down, three leaves joined.
Why this step
Bilva is the leaf prescribed for Shiva in the Puranas; the three leaves are read as the three gunas or three eyes.
Offer incense, then lamp, then food, in that order.
Why this step
The sequence moves through the senses — scent, sight, taste — so the offering is complete rather than symbolic only.
Stay awake through the four praharas of the night, with the Shivaratri katha read between them.
Why this step
Wakefulness through the night is the distinctive observance of this vrata — vigilance made literal.
Camphor arati, then ask forgiveness for errors in the rite.
Why this step
The closing acknowledges that the procedure was imperfect — the intent is what is offered.
Distribute prasad, break the fast at the prescribed parana time the next morning, and immerse or compost the used offerings respectfully.
Home and temple sequences differ; several traditions omit milk abhisheka, and permitted vrata foods vary by region.